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Polyamory
Breaking up while still in NRE
It happens in any type of relationship, whether it’s monogamous or non monogamous. And the type of relationship you’re in doesn’t make it any easier ...
Kink/BDSM
Let me delight you with my fucking playlist!
Deeply inspired, as usual, by the wonderful Erika Lust who has some of the most amazing projects, I decided to share my fucking playlist with ...
Thoughts
Let’s talk about toxic polyamory
I thought long and hard about writing this particular piece, but I believe it’s an important conversation to have and my lived experiences might help ...
Thoughts
42 things you didn’t know about me for @AChildOfTheWild
I believe that in this post you will find the answer to life, the universe and everything 😀 I don’t like cakes that are very ...
Thoughts
On Vanity in the Pandemic
The Internet is filling up with jokes about women and their desperate need for nail salons and hairdressers. Some of them had me laughing in ...
Thoughts
Love in the Time of the Pandemic
I’ve read it many times, but I think it doesn’t hurt to put this message out here again. So here’s goes my story of love ...
Thoughts
My Instagram Got Deleted
If you would like to help me get it back, you can copy-paste this text in the “Report a Problem” function of Instagram: @thekittyrea Instagram ...
Erotica
Of a Girl’s Simple Pleasures: Sensuality
A finger brushed away that loose strand of hair that was sweeping the top of my shoulder. I could barely feel his hand close to ...
Polyamory
Toolbox – The Bullet Point Arguments
If you are reading my blog and have not figured out what a huge fan of lists I am, then I don’t know what you ...
Thoughts
Abuse, Abusers and Victims
These are just random thoughts I have been gathering in my head, that I am trying to make sense of. Having been part of two ...
Erotica
Of a Girl’s Simple Pleasures: Fingers
Why do humans only have ten? Why are they spread out on only two hands? Such a waste, if you ask me. I dream of ...
Thoughts
Resolutions
I know that most resolutions are inevitably destined to be abandoned, but I still think they put you in a good mindset at the start ...
Thoughts
2018 – A Year of Waiting
This year that is about to pass has not been an easy one. It has had it’s challenges, like any other year. The most challenging ...
Thoughts
When We Turn Back the Clock of Our Personal Freedom
We are living in a time when, instead of moving forward with personal freedom, we are moving backward. The Internet that I had gotten used ...
Polyamory
Toolbox – Gratitude Journal
By far the best habit I have formed! Because always taking care of problems and feeling like your entire time is occupied with putting out ...
Polyamory
Being a better partner (pt. 5) – Being your own support
Having wonderful people to help you along is great, but you can’t and should not always rely on others. You could develop ways to be ...
Polyamory
Toolbox – Journaling and Letters Without a Recipient
Managing your own emotions and unpacking them in a healthy way is easier said than done. When you are in the grip of emotions, making ...
Polyamory
Toolbox – Put Yourself in Their Shoes
This has been by far the hardest exercise I have done, from an emotional perspective. It is much easier to look at things in black ...
Thoughts
Appropriate Answers to a Dickpic
It has happened to you. You go about your day, minding your business, and all of a sudden, one of your social media accounts gets ...