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Polyamory
Being a better partner (pt. 4) – Your living, breathing support network
Hopefully you have managed to find some resources, online or in print form, to make you feel less alone and offer more perspectives. But those ...
Polyamory
Toolbox – List of Joy
It took me a long time to understand myself in the context of polyamory, to become really comfortable and build up my confidence. For me, ...
Polyamory
Toolbox – Freakout List
I named it so, because that is pretty much what it was. It was a list of ideas to read and read again, in case ...
Polyamory
The Relationship Toolbox
I was lucky to hear of this extremely useful concept during a poly event and it has helped me so much! It is basically a ...
Polyamory
Toolbox – Leniency
If there is one thing that I fiercely preach, it is this: leniency. To yourself and to others. It’s not easy and I have to ...
Polyamory
Being a Better Partner (pt. 3) – Your Digital Support Network
A lot of the help that I found in dealing with difficult aspects of poly, was in resources about non-monogamy. I heard the stories of ...
Polyamory
Being a better partner (pt. 2) – The Best Reward of Non-monogamy
Something I have though a lot about, especially after coming out of my own “dark ages” of poly was that the best thing I got ...
Polyamory
Being a better partner (pt. 1) – The Root of All Our Poly Problems
I sincerely think that in order to thrive in polyamory, we must first take a good, hard look at the culture we were raised in ...
Thoughts
My Country is Holding a Referendum
To my many foreign friends: My country is a beautiful place. It has breath-taking mountains and the sea and people who are friendly and concert-goers ...
Thoughts
2018.09.10 – Assumptions and bringing people together
I have been on a short break from writing in my gratitude journal as I have been focusing on a new section of my blog ...
Thoughts
2018.09.06 – Your Own Little Victories
This post is meant to celebrate the improvements we see in ourselves. It may be hard sometimes to find what works best for you, but ...
Thoughts
2018.09.05 – Self Maintenance
This post is to celebrate working on yourself and feeling no shame about the work that you do! I grew up in a culture where ...
Thoughts
2018.09.04 – What Makes You Special to Others
This post celebrates being special and making yourself special to other people. It is about appreciation and working at your connections. For the longest time ...
Thoughts
2018.09.02 – To Trying Something New
This post is meant to mark how grateful I am for finding the courage to try something new, to putting myself out there and to ...
Thoughts
2018.09.01 – On Learning
Today’s post celebrates the goal of always learning and improving. Because I never thought that you can’t teach an old dog new tricks. Sure you ...
Thoughts
2018.08.31 – On Loss and Change
Today’s post is to celebrate change and loss. They might be hard to face and scary, but it is always a good reminder that you ...
Thoughts
2018.08.30 – To Having Friends as an Adult
Today’s post will be to express gratitude to the friends I have gained as an adult. For most of my life I have only had ...
Thoughts
2018.08.29 – Appreciate Every Moment
I have not been keeping up with this idea of a gratitude journal, but I am not discouraged. Often picking up a new or abandoned ...
Thoughts
Openness and tolerance are not a destination
I recently had a wonderful conversation on this topic. It is something that constantly preoccupies me, as an educator, as an event organiser and as ...
Thoughts
26.06.2018 – Good things really do come to those who wait
It was a wonderful weekend and a dream come true for me. It was something I had been waiting to see happen for 4 years ...