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23.06.2018 – Help yourself with the help of others
My Friday did not look like the best of days. All of my humans were out of town, doing their own thing and I have ...
Thoughts
22.06.2018 – Nick Cave and Arcade Fire concerts
I have decided to restart an old habit that has been very useful to me in the past and I would encourage everyone to try. ...
Kink/BDSM
Toolbox – A Date Night with Yourself
I have given a lot of thought lately to the idea that we tend to make an effort for other people, but not that much ...
Polyamory
Toolbox – A template for the User Manual
In case you are not familiar with the idea of the user manual, it is meant as a tool, firstly to help you get to ...
Shibari
Rope Bottom Bag – What to have on you when getting tied
I am absolute sucker for lists of all kinds and this list of what to pack when you are going to get tied has definitely ...
Kink/BDSM
An Easy Guide to Understanding What the Heck You Are Seeing on Stage at Bound
Some of the shibari/bondage performances that I have done have been aired live on the Internet. It’s been mostly Periscope accounts of others that have ...
Thoughts
Mister Asimov, my favorite teacher
My love affair with mister Asimov’s writing began early on. I think he was one of the very first writers that I completely fell in ...
Polyamory
When you decide that my husband is more important
It happens more often that you would think. I am having a conversation with someone and we end up talking about polyamory as it is a ...
Stuff I watch/read/listen to
If you want to start dating, just read this book
I was extremely delighted to discover that my two favorite podcast hosts had published a book on how to build your dating profile. Cunning Minx ...
Kink/BDSM
The wrong type of BDSM: 50 Shaders
It is a subject that has been long debated in the BDSM circles. Pretty much since the famous books became famous and started attracting a ...
Thoughts
My first impression on Brussels
So I had the opportunity to drop by Brussels and visit, on my way to Rotterdam, where I am performing at the awesome Ellipsis Rope ...
Kink/BDSM
I want to learn bondage
It makes me so happy to discover that more and more people are interested in bondage and willing to learn how to tie. And everyone ...
Thoughts
Dude, keep your dick-pic out of my inbox!
I know you guys are always busy tending to the crop of women you hope to bag, but please take a moment to hear me ...
Stuff I watch/read/listen to
Elle by Paul Verhoeven
I was very excited to go and see this movie since the trailer had me all worked up. I was even more excited after I ...
Shibari
Lesson 1 – Choosing rope
In this lesson, I talk a bit about length of rope, type of rope and which one you could chose when you are starting out ...
Thoughts
I ain’t burning no bra. That shit is expensive.
As you probably deduced, this post is about my feminism. And I know, I know, you panties might already be in a knot after reading ...