It took me a long time to understand myself in the context of polyamory, to become really comfortable and build up my confidence. For me, it was not an easy journey, but there have been things that have helped me along the way. And the very first I figured out was focusing on things that […]
Toolbox – List of Joy Read More »
Something I have though a lot about, especially after coming out of my own “dark ages” of poly was that the best thing I got out of poly was a better me. Even if I decide, tomorrow, that I don’t want any more relationships or that I want to be monogamous or that I will
Being a better partner (pt. 2) – The Best Reward of Non-monogamy Read More »
I sincerely think that in order to thrive in polyamory, we must first take a good, hard look at the culture we were raised in and the fantasy world that made us who we are today. Ideas like finding “the one” and “happily ever after” are something we might recognise as fantasy when we grow
Being a better partner (pt. 1) – The Root of All Our Poly Problems Read More »
